So What Are the Guys Doing?‪ ‬

In So What Are The Guys Doing, award-winning journalist and author, David J. Figura shares his transformational journey and captures the narrative of 50 men regarding real life subjects, such as, career, friendship, marriage, relationship, religion, sex and midlife challenges. Free Bonus - Reader Discussion questions suggest dialogue for personal reflection, and with couples, friends and book clubs.

Is this as good as it gets? Can I do better with my life? These two questions nagged David J. Figura, as he grappled with his marriage and considered an affair. He was also burned out at his job,lonely and resentful because of his lack of meaningful friendships.
Sound familiar?
Figura bares all and relates the changes he made in his marriage, the radical steps to make more male friends, the risk he took in his career –and heartfelt conversations with more than 50 men dealing with many of the same issues.

“I love this book. Its message to middle-aged men about the importance of getting and keeping their male friends close is much needed.”
~ John Gray, best-selling author of Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus

“For far too long, a man’s quest for passion has been disregarded as a ‘midlife life crisis.’ A must read for men and the women who love
them.” ~ Sheila Applegate, MSW, award -winning author of Enchanted One: The Portal To Love

“David J. Figura has uncovered a difficult and uncomfortable reality thatmany men share in their mid-life years. For those who are struggling, the light he sheds—I think—will be a great solace.”~ Tim Green, ex-NFL football player, best-selling author, TV and radio personality