Spanked: Real Stories

NEWLY EDITED 2025 EDITION.

In this collection of personal confessions, women describe in intimate detail their most memorable spankings, the stories behind their spanking fetishes and the desires beneath their compulsion to be spanked again and again.

Erotica author and researcher Gabriella Luciano interviewed hundreds of women about their experiences getting spanked by men. From those, she distilled this handpicked assortment of the most vivid, extraordinary and extreme stories.

From a kinky affair with a demanding professor, to a bratty executive looking for rough love, to a strict Colombian stepfather, to the extremes of domestic discipline, to a raw fling on the dark streets of New York, to spanking addictions of young women looking for love, these candid stories reveal the complex feelings behind the overpowering desire to be spanked.

Author's Note:

The act of spanking is tied up in so many emotional, psychological and physical dimensions that it is impossible to distill the whole world of getting a good ass smacking into simple statements. Yet, it is possible to take the broad array of women who have either gotten disciplined in a very memorable way in the past, or simply love to get their butts spanked a deep shade of red during sexual play in the present, and let them speak for themselves. For a number of years, as part of a post-graduate level research study into spanking and its effects, I got the chance to speak intimately with women who either were at the receiving end of unforgettable spankings or badly craved to be spanked as part of a deeper need to be desired in a very physical way by men. Although I could not publish these confessions in a formal academic study or research journal, the emotional truth and sexual honesty of these women, I felt, needed to be shown the light of day.

The women agreed to tell me their stories and desires in intimate detail as long as I kept their identities anonymous. I talked to hundreds and hundreds of women from across the country who I had met through friends, research connections, colleagues, online dating sites, in spanking fetish forums, via personal ads and even in person at bars and parties. The stories collected here are chosen from the vast array of confessions due to their unique qualities. There were many similar stories but the ones printed here really stuck in my mind as being especially exemplary of women with deep desires to be spanked by men due to powerful events or people in their lives.