Tastes Like War
A Memoir
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4.2 • 22 Ratings
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- $9.99
Publisher Description
Finalist for the 2021 National Book Award for Nonfiction
Winner of the 2022 Asian/Pacific American Award in Literature
A TIME and NPR Best Book of the Year in 2021
This evocative memoir of food and family history is "somehow both mouthwatering and heartbreaking... [and] a potent personal history" (Shelf Awareness).
Grace M. Cho grew up as the daughter of a white American merchant marine and the Korean bar hostess he met abroad. They were one of few immigrants in a xenophobic small town during the Cold War, where identity was politicized by everyday details—language, cultural references, memories, and food. When Grace was fifteen, her dynamic mother experienced the onset of schizophrenia, a condition that would continue and evolve for the rest of her life.
Part food memoir, part sociological investigation, Tastes Like War is a hybrid text about a daughter’s search through intimate and global history for the roots of her mother’s schizophrenia. In her mother’s final years, Grace learned to cook dishes from her parent’s childhood in order to invite the past into the present, and to hold space for her mother’s multiple voices at the table. And through careful listening over these shared meals, Grace discovered not only the things that broke the brilliant, complicated woman who raised her—but also the things that kept her alive.
“An exquisite commemoration and a potent reclamation.” —Booklist (starred review)
“A wrenching, powerful account of the long-term effects of the immigrant experience.” —Kirkus Reviews
APPLE BOOKS REVIEW
The punishing effects of war can be felt for generations—something that Grace M. Cho’s stirring memoir demonstrates powerfully. Cho’s father was an American merchant marine when he met Cho’s mother in South Korea: a nation then traumatized by decades of colonialism, occupation, and war. Growing up as a mixed-race child in her dad’s small hometown of Chehalis, Washington, Cho faced racism and xenophobia in her everyday life. But her incredible story of hardship and triumph becomes even more intense when, as an adolescent, her mother, Koonja, is diagnosed with schizophrenia. The journey that follows is both poignant and fascinating, as Cho comes to understand how Koonja’s delusions are informed by her many painful—and often secret—past experiences. We loved seeing Cho connect with her mother across the gulf of her mental illness by cooking her the delicious Korean foods of her youth (in one bittersweet scene, Koonja suddenly starts talking about her long-dead sister between bites of lettuce-wrapped rice). Tastes Like War is an unforgettable examination of the circumstances, people, and flavors that shape us.
