The Game of Desire

5 Surprising Secrets to Dating with Dominance--and Getting What You Want

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    • $15.99

Publisher Description

“Forget what you think you know about dating—sexologist Shan Boodram is here to take you back to school.” - Apple Books Review

“Boodram’s brand of relationship advice...focuses on empowering single women with the tools they need to succeed in the digital dating era.” - Refinery29

Women: gain control and confidence in your love lives and find the relationship you want with this modern, life-changing guide from the certified sex educator, intimacy expert, and YouTube personality.
For younger generations, dating is a complicated mystery. Apps like Tinder and Bumble are supposed to foster connection, but instead serve as a reminder of how painfully single we are.
Certified sexologist and intimacy coach Shan Boodram—the most sought-after sex educator on the internet—is about to change all that. In this essential how-to guide, she addresses the realities of life today—when the rules of love and attraction are fluid—and teaches a group of young women how to become master daters in just sixty days.

It starts with you. Shan makes clear that love and self-discovery go hand in hand—your dating life is just as much about you as it is about other people. She challenges you to look inside yourself for what you want out of a partner, a relationship and, most important, yourself. Once you figure out what you want from dating, she shows you exactly how to get it. The Game of Desire empowers you to take the lead, learn your strengths, and identify and correct your weaknesses, all the while getting inspired watching a group of women learn how to succeed in today’s dating pool.

While many books tell women why they can’t get a date, Shan teaches you the skills and techniques necessary to take charge in today’s competitive and often confusing dating scene, providing the tools essential to attract—and retain—the partner(s) you want. From learning love languages to debunking dating myths, she helps women build knowledge and confidence.

Featuring conversational case studies, comprehensive facts about the psychology of sex and romance, and expert insight into sex culture, and written with her trademark humor and charm, The Game of Desire is a must for all of Shan’s fans and for every woman struggling to feel loved and desired.

July 23
Dey Street Books

Customer Reviews

tbizzle22 ,

Best Dating Book

I was hooked from the introduction on. I pre-ordered this book and it did not disappoint. If you feel like your stuck in a dating rut or new to dating, this book is for you! Shan has you expand your mind and look at yourself inwards. Also great recommendations for other dating/self help books. Thank you Shan! Buying all my friends copies!😁

JackLo93 ,

Cool read. insightful

Good book. I’m always here for a social experiment, but she did a good job at working with a diverse group of women. I even saw some of them in me, Strengths and weakness, and actually learn quite a bit.

SB22$ ,


Very clear and helpful in all areas. This woman is amazing for going this far to help people. Most people will not do that and that’s amazing.

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