The Second Coming
Sex and the Next Generation's Fight Over Its Future
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3.0 • 2 Ratings
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Publisher Description
A NEW YORKER BEST BOOK OF THE WEEK PICK
Equal parts investigative reporting and cultural criticism, this is a look at the sex lives of young adults in post-Roe v. Wade, post-#MeToo America—and how the challenges they face are harbingers of what’s coming for the rest of us.
As a college student, award-winning journalist Carter Sherman, along with several members of her sorority, was interviewed by a writer looking for salacious details about their sex lives. But the sex the girls were having—or the lack thereof—seemed disappointing, and their stories didn’t make the book’s final cut. A decade later, young Americans are having less sex than past generations, and the sex they are having is infinitely more complicated. Sherman, who has spent years traveling the country reporting on gender and sexuality, wanted to find out why.
Based on more than one hundred interviews with teenagers and young adults, activists, and experts, The Second Coming reveals how (mis)education, the internet, and politics have not only reshaped relationships but also unleashed a nationwide power struggle over the future of sex. From abortion clinics crowded with young patients, to “Dating with Dignity” seminars at the National Pro-Life Summit, to school board battles over what students should read, think, and feel, we meet folks from both sides of the aisle who are well-informed, empowered, and active (even if not always sexually). And as measures are taken to limit Americans’ access to rights and resources, they are fighting back.
In the tradition of Rebecca Traister and Lisa Taddeo, The Second Coming explores how the ballot box has infiltrated the bedroom, and the breaking point as a nation we’ve reached as a result.
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Guardian journalist Sherman debuts with an in-depth look at how sociocultural shifts, political upheavals, and technological advances have upended Gen Z's sex lives. Sherman argues that Gen Z's "reputation as sex-negative puriteens" is reminiscent of scaremongering around millennials' "hookup culture." While she doesn't dismiss the "sex recession"—indeed, fewer teens and young adults are having sex—she complicates the statistics by considering the "enormous and oppositional forces" at work, including the constant presence of online porn, decades of abstinence-only sex ed, the dual emergence of #MeToo and the "manosphere," and Roe v. Wade's overturning. Sherman treats these topics with nuance (what may be harmful for some can be lifesaving for others, she notes, citing social media's potential to connect isolated LGBTQ+ teens to a wider community) as she draws on more than 100 interviews she conducted with young people about sex. Their stories range from horrifying accounts of rape and leaked nudes to recollections of inadequate sex ed leading to sexual fears ("I remember walking away terrified"). These personal anecdotes enliven Sherman's narrative, lending intimacy to extensive citations of empirical data. Sherman also hearteningly spotlights how Gen Z has pushed back against the likes of Florida's "Don't Say Gay" law with activism, including "peer-to-peer sex ed." The result is a clear-eyed snapshot of Gen Z without the usual hand-wringing.