The Sure Thing

The Sure Thing: A Pleasure Practice to Revive the Spark reignites the sizzle that once was.



Are you frustrated with your sex life? Hungry for reliable sensual satisfaction? Ready to fall more in love—especially with yourself? Whether you’re single or partnered, The Sure Thing pleasure practice will help you reclaim the spark—and the self—you thought you’d lost.



Elana Auerbach has spent years guiding people into their sensual aliveness. But this book is personal. For twelve years, she and her spouse struggled over sex. They tried pretty much everything—sexpert advice, toys, techniques—but nothing changed until Elana created The Sure Thing.



Inside, you’ll discover:

How pleasure nourishes the nervous system and creates emotional safety and connection

How to break free from shame, conditioning, and the pressure to “perform” intimacy

Why most couples drift apart—and how to reverse that through intention and play

How to navigate resistance and rekindle curiosity with compassion

The Solo Sure: how to begin your pleasure practice if you're single or your partner isn’t ready yet

A step-by-step guide to creating your own fulfilling Sure Thing practice that grows richer over time

Why a weekly ritual can transform not just your sex life, but your entire relationship with pleasure



This is not another chore to add to your self-improvement list. It’s an invitation back to your innate vitality and pleasure.