The Things We Never Say
A Novel
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4.1 • 1.2K Ratings
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Publisher Description
NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • In this “profound, resplendent novel”* from Pulitzer Prize–winning author Elizabeth Strout, a chance incident sparks a powerful realization in a beloved teacher’s life.
SHORTLISTED FOR THE BOOKER PRIZE • ONE OF BARACK OBAMA’S FAVORITE BOOKS OF THE SUMMER
“Strout’s capacious empathy and rigorous attention to the nuances of human behavior and psychology are as evident as ever.”—The Boston Globe
“Artie Dam is someone you may never be able to forget.”—Financial Times*
Artie Dam is living a double life. He spends his days teaching history to eleventh graders, expanding their young minds, correcting their casual cruelties, and lending a kind word to those who need it most. He goes to holiday parties with his wife of three decades, makes small talk with neighbors, and, on weekends, takes his sailboat out on the beautiful Massachusetts Bay. He is, by all appearances, present and alive. But inside, Artie is plagued by feelings of isolation. He looks out at a world gone mad—at himself and the people around him—and turns a question over and over in his mind: How is it that we know so little about one another, even those closest to us?
And then, one day, Artie learns that life has been keeping a secret from him, one that threatens to upend his entire world. Once he learns it, he is forced to chart a new course, to reconsider the relationships he holds most dear—and to make peace with the mysteries at the heart of our existence.
Elizabeth Strout, as we have come to expect, delivers a moving exploration of the human condition—one that brims with compassion for each and every one of her indelible characters. With exquisite prose and profound insight, The Things We Never Say takes one man’s fears and loneliness and makes them universal. And in the same breath, captures the abiding love that sustains and holds us all.
APPLE BOOKS REVIEW
Elizabeth Strout returns with a quietly devastating novel about the secrets we keep, even from the people we love most. Artie Dam is a beloved high school history teacher living a seemingly contented life as a husband and father in a coastal Massachusetts town. But underneath, he carries a deep and private loneliness he can barely name. When an unexpected revelation about his family forces him to question everything he thought he understood, Artie has to confront both the silence in his marriage and the things he’s been avoiding about himself. The author of Olive Kitteridge makes ordinary small-town lives feel profound, and the way Strout captures friendship, parenthood, and aging here is unmatched. Artie is a beautifully drawn character, so tender and achingly human, and his world feels so complete that every conversation seems like it carries years of unspoken history. This graceful novel skillfully reflects the relatable strangeness of being deeply loved but still never fully known.
Customer Reviews
Decent but not Booker quality
Had to read this after the Booker shortlisting and seeing all the TDS reviews! Disappointed on both fronts - nothing great about the story, sentiments or writing and hardly harsh on DJT. That said, a sweet relatable story and a very quick read. Definitely a decent beach or holiday read but I’ll be shocked if it gets the Booker.
Wow
So real so intimate so human. Couldn’t put down
A great storyline that doesn’t deliver
This book is short listed for The National Book Award, which really surprises me. It’s not bad but it has many flaws. The central character, Artie, thinks about suicide because his life is losing its meaning for him. He and his wife, Evie, have a wonderful son who is described as still scarred from a tragedy he caused many years ago. Evie also was changed for the worse by the tragedy. The book is comprised almost entirely of relationship descriptions — Artie with family and friends, with his students. But these relationships seem incompletely explored. Why his wife treats him with such hostility, why he thinks he has no reason to live despite his very strong relationship with his son, why his attempts to engage people with is free will question never go anywhere. The storyline is great but Strout doesn’t seem that interested in probing it. And her unnamed references to the Trump presidency feel forced, like she’s venting.