The Verbally Abusive Relationship, Expanded Third Edition
How to recognize it and how to respond
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- $9.99
Publisher Description
In this fully expanded and updated third edition of the bestselling classic, you learn why verbal abuse is more widespread than ever, and how you can deal with it. You'll get more of the answers you need to recognize abuse when it happens, respond to abusers safely and appropriately, and most important, lead a happier, healthier life.
In two all-new chapters, Evans reveals the Outside Stresses driving the rise in verbal abuse - and shows you how you can mitigate the devastating effects on your relationships. She also outlines the Levels of Abuse that characterize this kind of behavior - from subtle, insidious put-downs that can erode your self-esteem to full-out tantrums of name-calling, screaming, and threatening that can escalate into physical abuse.
Drawing from hundreds of real situations suffered by real people just like you, Evans offers strategies, sample scripts, and action plans designed to help you deal with the abuse - and the abuser.
This timely new edition of The Verbally Abusive Relationship puts you on the road to recognizing and responding to verbal abuse, one crucial step at a time!
Customer Reviews
Best book ever
This book saved my life, maybe even literally. Finally someone put it into words- words I can use to stop the abuse and words that validate my experience.
Disempowering
I am not very far into this book but it’s driving me crazy. I am a WOMAN with a sharp tongue who wants to learn how to speak and communicate more kindly with my own (male) partner. But the aggressively gendered pronouns (“the man, HE is the abuser; the woman, SHE is the victim”) puts me into a totally different headspace, and I find myself seeing myself as the “victim” and feeling sorry for myself. I’m a fast reader, but the mental gymnastics of squinting at each and every sentence, trying to reconstruct the entire narrative in reverse makes this an exhausting and unhelpful read. And yes, I read the disclaimer about the pronouns in the foreword- it doesn’t make the reading experience any less biased.