"You're just lazy!" "If I can do it, why can't you?" "You're just making excuses!" "What's the matter with you?" If you have a friend or family member with ADHD, the chances are that you may have heard yourself saying things like these. But ADHD is a real disorder, that causes real problems for the people who have it. This book is an explanation of ADHD, by someone who has it. This book is for friends and family members of people with ADHD, who want to better understand what ADHD is and how it feels to have it.