Enough Is Enough: A Step-by-Step Plan to Leave an Abusive Relationship with God's Help
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3.8 • 18 Ratings
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Publisher Description
You need to get to safety. Now.
When the abuse starts, that’s when you know enough is enough. It’s time to find a haven somewhere else. There will be a chance down the road to assess where your marriage is headed in the long term. No one is saying divorce is the inevitable outcome. God can transform anyone.
But He doesn’t promise to do that. People choose to persist in sin. And that’s why it’s imperative for you to leave . . . so you can think clearly, take stock of the situation, and most of all, protect yourself and those whom you love.
Dr. David Clarke, a licensed psychologist specializing in marital therapy for more than 30 years, wants to help you make the break from your abusive relationship. Whether or not divorce is on the horizon is beside the point. You need to get out so you can sort it out.
Dr. Clarke understands this journey won’t be easy. That’s why he provides a step-by-step plan that includes practical advice as well as biblical guidance. But leave you must, because abuse is a sin that doesn’t come from above. Let this book help you get away from your abuser so you can give your marriage the best chance to succeed. Because only with some distance will you be able to see what your loving, ever-faithful God has in store for you.
Customer Reviews
Excellent recourse
I fit in to the lesser accepted and fewer case studies of the man being abused by the woman. My wife has abused me with every single abuse listed in this book plus extreme sleep deprivation and turning my disabilities into a weapon, and more for 17 years, She has used tactics from this book for the “Escaping” spouses as a reverse psychology way to convince a PHD psychologist and a counselor with 22 years military service as a Chaplin and 15 years as a licensed counselor, that I was the abuser.
It helped me realize that I was, and am, being abused, and that I have needed to escape since 2008.
I made the mistake of staying to get my daughter to adulthood. This book does a wonderful job explaining why that is such a bad idea, and everything Dr. Clark says will happen if you do this, has happened to me and my daughter.
This book changed my perspective, explained just how abused I am, and why escaping earlier on, is so crucial for hope of restoration of the marriage. We have been married for 23 years. Neither one of us is ready for divorce, and the Chaplin said he’s been counseling for 37 years and has never seen more devotion to restoration and commitment between two people. Escaping, intervention, endurance and resolve, used in the right ways, outlined in this book, hopefully will save our marriage and family, and help you restore your family?
Having the tactics of “escaping” used against you as a weapon, is the worst abuse of all. Almost no one believes me, her manipulation and deception is so convincing. I hope this book helps you escape from your abuser, and would be a wonderful resource to use in counseling.
Answered Prayer
This is a topic that many Christian’s are not aware of. This book is much needed in the last days. Thank you Dr. Clarke