The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse (Unabridged‪)‬

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Publisher Description

The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse is the most comprehensive and helpful audiobook on the topic of covert narcissism. This type of narcissism is one of the most damaging forms because the abuse is so hidden and so insidious. You can be in a relationship that can last for decades and not realize you are being psychologically and emotionally controlled, manipulated, and abused. 

These people are well-liked; they are often the pillars of the community. Parents, spouses, bosses, and friends who are covert narcissists come across as the nicest people. They can be spiritual leaders, they are moms who bring over casseroles to needy people, they are the bosses who everyone loves and feels so lucky to work for. 

These relationships are incredibly confusing and damaging. They leave you questioning your own sanity and reality. Even though they are treating you terribly, you wonder if you are the problem, if you are the one to blame. You are filled with constant self-doubt when it comes to these people in your life. When you are around them, you feel confused and muddled inside. You have a hard time seeing clearly. 

These relationships can bring you to a state of deep depression and complete depletion of energy. You may wonder if you will ever see clearly and heal from these destructive and debilitating relationships. 

This audiobook will give you hope that you can heal and feel alive again, or maybe for the first time. You will learn what the traits of a covert narcissist are, as well as how they control and manipulate. Your eyes will open, and your experience will be validated. You will also learn ways to heal and actually enjoy life again. 

Debbie Mirza uses decades of her own experience with covert narcissists as well as her years of practice as a life coach who specializes in helping people recover and heal from these types of relationships.

Science & Nature
Debbie Mirza
hr min
December 7
Safe Place Publishing

Customer Reviews

crazy is what crazy does ,

Fantastic Book

This book was exactly what I needed as I go through my recovery.

RecoveringNarcSurvivor ,


I am fresh out of a relationship with a covert narcissist. I had no idea this was a thing and almost lost myself to their manipulative ways. After leaving that relationship for good, I began searching for any information that would help me to heal. I ALWAYS felt like I was going crazy because of the things that took place in that very unhealthy part of my life. I had nothing and no one that could help me make sense of it. I now know, because of this book, I am not crazy. I now realize and am able to make sense of all the ways I was tricked and manipulated into this life I was promised. Thank you SO much for this book. It has helped me realize I am so much more than I ever thought. It’s brought so much clarity to my life!

smokey sings ,

Saved my life

I’m an ICU and Personal Trainer. I say this because I’m always on the go. After being discarded after a year. I could not get out of bed for 3 weeks. All my friends were over it months ago. I literally thought I had an illness. I didn’t understand I was in flight or flight for a year. And I had been giving my partner every ounce of energy I had. Then once it was ended which the cruelty of a discard I seriously didn’t think I would live through it. Yes. I was contemplating suicide. I watched numerous YouTube videos and read many books. Yes. They explained what a covert narcissist is. But not from a prospective that was comforting.

I fell upon this book. I wish I could hug the author. I bought the audio. It was exactly what I needed.

What this book addressed that I was embarrassed to ask anyone. I felt like I was just a hole for him sexually. It wasn’t like that at first. Then I just felt used. Like I was disposable. This book explained why.

I blocked him ( after numerous failed attempts ) and I’m confident he will stay blocked.

If you have been a victim. I highly suggest this book.

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