The Attachment Styles Mastery: Define Your Attachment Style, Decode Your Partner's Brain and Build a Lasting Relationship (Unabridged)
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Publisher Description
Your past could be ruining your present relationships. Here’s how to fix it:
Do all your relationships seem to follow the same pattern, no matter who you’re with?
Do you encounter similar issues from relationship to relationship?
Do you think you’ve found the one but worry that you’re doomed to relive the same relationship problems with them?
No matter how much you want to have a problem-free relationship, it’s inevitable to run into some issues along the way.
But when your problems keep repeating themselves and are damaging your bond with your partner, you will need to look beyond your current issues and dive deep into the past.
In psychology, attachment theory explains adult relationships through the lens of parent-child relationships.
According to this theory, we develop attachment patterns with parents and caregivers in early childhood that influence how we relate to others as adults.
Your attachment styles can also determine the type of person you gravitate to in relationships, since you are looking to have your needs met in a certain way.
This can sometimes result in destructive relationships if partners are unable to have their needs met in the way they prefer.
If you want to have a better, healthier relationship than your previously disastrous ones, you will need to understand your partner’s attachment styles, as well as your own, and how these can interact in harmony.
In The Attachment Styles Mastery, you will discover:
How you could be unconsciously sabotaging your relationships and destroying your chance at lasting love
Three straightforward steps to figure out your attachment style and understand the deep-rooted motivations behind your actions
The attachment style that can leave you feeling frustrated and ignored, especially when things get tough in your relationship
Why a seemingly happy and generous partner may be privately harboring resentment towards you
Customer Reviews
A Must Read For Anyone In Or Wanting An Intimate Relationship
I wish I had this book when i started dating over 35 years ago. I will make sure all four of my nearly grown children listen to it.
This should be a mandatory class taught in high school and college! Its content is far more relevant than the Pythagorean theory.
The author dives deep into each of the attachment styles. Once you determine yours, you can determine your partner’s.
Think about how amazing it is to realize so much of you and your behavior all stems from your parents and how you attached with them. Was your mother always there for you or was she so consumed by ANYTHING other than you. That affects you and your ability to be in a securely attached relationship.
Once you know you, your attachment style and your partner’s, you can then “decode” how the two of you can and will be in your relationship which the author(s) describe in detail. Then you can strive for a secure attachment life together.
I listened in one sitting. Now, I want the book so it can sit on my bedside table as a reference for future use.
Don’t forget, “That which is not resolved, remains.” And we can resolve anything until we know what it is we are trying to resolve. This is a good place to start on your journey to understanding you.