



There Is No Ethan
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3.9 • 23 Ratings
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- $16.99
Publisher Description
Part memoir, part explosive window into the mind of a catfisher, a thrilling personal account of three women coming face-to-face with an internet predator and teaming up to expose them.
In 2011, three successful and highly educated women fell head over heels for the brilliant and charming Ethan Schuman. Unbeknownst to the others, each exchanged countless messages with Ethan, staying up late into the evenings to deepen their connections with this fascinating man. His detailed excuses about broken webcams and complicated international calling plans seemed believable, as did last minute trip cancellations. After all, why would he lie? Ethan wasn't after money — he never convinced his marks to shell out thousands of dollars for some imagined crisis. Rather, he ensnared these women in a web of intense emotional intimacy.
After the trio independently began to question inconsistencies in their new flame's stories, they managed to find one another and uncover a greater deception than they could've ever imagined. As Anna Akbari and the women untangled their catfish’s web, they found other victims and realized that without a proper crime, there was no legal reason for “Ethan” to ever stop.
There Is No Ethan catalogues Akbari's experience as both victim and observer. By looking at the bigger picture of where these stories unfold — a world where technology mediates our relationships; where words and images are easily manipulated; and where truth, reality, and identity have become slippery terms — Akbari gives a page-turning and riveting examination of why stories like Ethan's matter for us all.
APPLE BOOKS REVIEW
If you’re confident you could never be catfished, you need to listen to this jaw-dropping first-person account. Highly educated and successful, Anna Akbari and two other women fell in love with the online persona of Ethan Schuman—only to gradually realize their boyfriend was a work of fiction. Akbari recalls with riveting clarity how the three of them went on a mission to stop him, which was harder than you might think. It turns out that unless money is involved, catfishing is not illegal—it’s just emotionally and psychologically devastating. Hearing Akbari narrate her own story is particularly fascinating and powerful, as she unflinchingly describes just how masterfully Ethan emotionally manipulated her, along with possibly dozens of others. (And having another narrator, Justin Price, as Ethan’s voice is an inspired choice!) There Is No Ethan will make you think twice before swiping right.
Customer Reviews
Wow!
Wow, just WOW! I just don't have the right words. Read it - you won't be disappointed.
Hard to get through when you consider these are educated women.
As a woman myself, I was shocked by how blindly these educated women kept falling for “Ethan.” Listen to your gut ladies, all of those warning flares are happening for a reason.
Loved it!
It breaks my heart that there are individuals that would emotionally abuse total strangers (let alone, known loved ones). The first little bit was difficult to listen to, as it was reading emails, but once that was past (which is about 20 minutes), I just couldn’t stop listening - I was sucked in. It was enthralling. Great listen…horrible true story.