To Raise A Boy (Unabridged)
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4.2 • 6 Ratings
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- $19.99
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- $19.99
Publisher Description
“Brown…engages intellectually with thorny issues involving language, school culture, and the more troublesome aspects of today’s parent universe.” —The Washington Post
“To Raise a Boy is a clear-eyed and sometimes shocking view of the world that we have created for boys, and a call for change.” —Peg Tyre, author of the New York Times bestseller The Trouble with Boys
A journalist’s searing investigation into how we teach boys to be men—and how we can do better.
How will I raise my son to be different? This question gripped Washington Post investigative reporter Emma Brown, who was at home nursing her six-week-old son when the #MeToo movement erupted. In search of an answer, Brown traveled around the country, through towns urban and rural, affluent and distressed. In the course of her reporting, she interviewed hundreds of people—educators, parents, coaches, researchers, men, and boys—to understand the challenges boys face and how to address them.
What Brown uncovered was shocking: 23 percent of boys believe men should use violence to get respect; 22 percent of an incoming college freshman class said they had already committed sexual violence; 58 percent of young adults said they’ve never had a conversation with their parents about respect and care in sexual relationships. Men are four times more likely than women to die by suicide. Nearly 4 million men experience sexual violence each year.
From the reporter who brought Dr. Christine Blasey Ford’s story to light, To Raise a Boy combines assiduous reporting, cutting-edge scientific research, and boys’ powerful testimonials to expose the crisis in young men’s emotional and physical health. Emma Brown connects the dots between educators, researchers, policy makers, and mental health professionals in this tour de force that upends everything we thought we knew about boys.
Johns Hopkins chair of the Department of Population, Family, and Reproductive Health Robert Blum says, “The story of boys has yet to be told, and I think it’s a really important story.” Urgent and revelatory, To Raise a Boy begins to tell that story.
Customer Reviews
Starts well; ends missing the mark
This book starts off very good, but as the book goes on the author processes how American male boys are treated (unfairly) because of their gender, but falls shorts of exploring how toxic masculinity, patriarchy, and rape culture have conditioned the *why* of how American male boys make those decisions. Her analysis does not go far enough (or be applied to enough of the topics in the book) of why toxic masculinity, patriarchy, and rape culture harm American male boys with their culture and pressures.
Additionally, when it comes to sexual misconduct and how that should be changed at times it can come across as not wanting to hold American male teens/boys to a high enough standard and that culture should change but-not-so-much-as-it-would-affect-my-son and that bar for American male teens/boys should be relaxed and lowered because changing culture is hard to do— instead of calling for more and more equipping of American male teens/boys and their support networks to tech and learn and pull those same teens/boys to where the bar deserves to be. In these chapters she focuses too much on how changing culture can make it hard for boys, but does not go far enough to show why it is so crucial and a crisis for girls health and safety.
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