Getting to Know Someone

A few good dates in, and you're not yet sure what the two of you are.

This book covers the weeks and months that follow: whether you actually like them, how often to be in touch, a pace that seems to be slowing, and which early signs deserve real weight. It helps you talk about physical pace and consent, your past, friends and family, and what can't bend. It also speaks to parents dating with children at home, and to anyone dating someone who has children.

Inside you'll find:

• A five-date review and a between-dates notebook
• Two timelines, the next twenty years side by side, to fill in together
• Scripts for raising a small thing and for asking what you are
• A limit card and a wait-limit card to keep for yourself

There are 60 tools in all: 15 worksheets, 19 checklists and 26 scripts, collected again in the toolkit at the back.

Room to notice what you actually think, before you decide what this is.

This is Book 3 of A Clarity4Couples Guide, eight books that follow a relationship from wanting one to the year after it ends. It's for reflection and general information, not therapy or professional advice.

Created with generative AI and edited by the author.