Passing: A Memoir of Love and Death
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5.0 • 3 Ratings
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- $20.99
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Publisher Description
In the tradition of The Year of Magical Thinking comes a legendary editor’s unflinching love song about his radiant wife, Margaret, and her battle with cancer.
It was a warm April in Pleasant Valley when Margaret Korda, normally a fearless horsewoman, dropped her horsewhip while she was riding. Such a mild slip was easy to ignore, but when other troubling symptoms accumulated, she confided to her husband, “Michael, I think something serious is wrong with me.” Within a few rapid weeks, the fiercely independent, former fashion model was diagnosed with brain cancer, while Michael, once reliant on her steeliness, became her caregiver, deciphering bewildering medical reports and packing her beloved toiletries for the hospital. An operation performed by a renowned surgeon allowed Margaret to ride her favorite competition horse Logan go Bragh a few more times, but Margaret’s tumors quickly returned—leaving her to grapple with the reality of impending death. In rapturous prose, Korda, a modern- day Orpheus, braids her heroic story with heartrending details of their final year together. Passing, a tender memoir, is a testament to the transcendent possibilities of love.
PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
Novelist and former Simon & Schuster editor-in-chief Korda (Clouds of Glory) delivers a heartfelt look at his wife, Margaret, who was diagnosed with brain cancer a year before she died at age 79. This intimate memoir is both a tribute to their 45-year marriage during which they had been "each other's lover, companion, and best friend" and an account of how looking "after someone who is dying gradually fills one's life to the exclusion of everything else" with "no manual that tells you what to do, what to expect, what to tell the person who's dying." Korda's account of Margaret's medical treatments surgery, radiation, and rehabilitation is made all the more striking as he details her lifetime of physical fitness, including riding horses competitively (and winning five national championships). He sensitively describes how Margaret's "present was becoming unbearable at a quickening rate" though he concludes that in the end her eyes showed not resignation but "perhaps even gratitude" that "the struggle was coming to an end." Lovingly told, Korda's memoir movingly captures the complexities of dealing with the death of a loved one.
