The Erotic Mind
Unlocking the Inner Sources of Passion and Fulfillment
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4.3 • 9 Ratings
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Publisher Description
Challenging accepted theories about what makes for terrific sex, The Erotic Mind is a breakthrough exploration of the least understood dimensions of human sexuality—the psychology of desire, sexual arousal, and fulfillment. In this guide to sexual passion, nationally known sex therapist Dr. Jack Morin offers a bold new perspective that celebrates the joys of Eros without denying its risks.
Based on an in-depth analysis of over 1,000 provocative stories of peak sexual experiences, The Erotic Mind offers clear, accessible guidance on how anyone can utilize his or her own peak encounters and fantasies as powerful tools for erotic self-discovery.
The Erotic Mind explains the many paradoxes of erotic life, such as: why we’re most excited when we must overcome obstacles; how anxiety, guilt, and anger—generally thought to have a negative impact on sexual arousal—often turn out to be emotional aphrodisiacs; how we use unresolved issues from our early lives as troublesome turn-ons to intensify passion; and why the best sex is dynamic and unpredictable, rather than static and safe.
These and other insights, combined with concrete suggestions for achieving sexual health, overcoming our problems, and revitalizing our long-term relationships, will change forever the way we think about our eroticism.
Grounded in decades of clinical experience and landmark research, this essential guide reveals the hidden logic of your desires:
The Erotic Equation: Discover why attraction combined with obstacles—including anxiety, guilt, and frustration—creates the most intense sexual excitement.Peak Erotic Experiences: Learn from the analysis of over 1,000 real-life stories how to use your own most memorable encounters as a tool for self-discovery.Your Core Erotic Theme: Uncover the personal blueprint for arousal that transforms your unique life challenges and emotional wounds into sources of passion.A New Perspective on Sex Therapy: Move beyond simplistic “neat-and-clean” models of sex and embrace a paradoxical approach that celebrates the complexity of your desires.
PUBLISHERS WEEKLY
Too many sex therapists focus only on the removal of inhibitions, thus ignoring the complex and paradoxical sources of passion, declares San Francisco-area psychotherapist Morin in this intriguing, insightful mix of analysis, anecdote and advice. Drawing on 351 respondents, straight and gay, who discussed their erotic lives with him, Morin has developed an ``erotic equation'': attraction plus obstacles leads to excitement. This formula, he avers, is neither tidy nor predictable. He suggests that sexual obstacles in one's youth create lifelong scripts for arousal, while a range of feelings--including exuberance, anxiety and anger--can intensify arousal. Morin advises readers to confront the unresolved feelings that produce ``troublesome turn-ons'' and offers a seven-step guide to modifying or expanding one's erotic patterns. In long-term relationships, Morin observes, passion is hardly guaranteed; he advises couples to recognize and address the interactive tension between intimacy and sexual desire. $35,000 marketing campaign; author tour.
