The Nurture Revolution
Grow Your Baby's Brain and Transform Their Mental Health through the Art of Nurtured Parenting
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Publisher Description
The latest research in neuroscience and parenting come together in this groundbreaking book, which brings to light new realizations about the power of nurture for our children's mental and physical health outcomes.
Greer Kirshenbaum, PhD. is a neuroscientist, doula, and parent. Her work began with the goal of developing new treatments for poor mental health; she dreamed of creating a new medication to address conditions like anxiety, depression, addiction, and chronic stress. Over time, she realized that science had already uncovered a powerful medicine for alleviating mental health struggles, but the answer wasn’t a pill. It was a preventative approach: when babies' receive nurturing care in the first three years of life, it builds strong, resilient brains -- brains that are less susceptible to poor mental health.
How can parents best set their children up for success? In this revelatory book, Dr. Kirshenbaum makes plain that nurture is a preventative medicine against mental health issues. She challenges the idea that the way to cultivate independence is through letting babies cry it out or sleep alone; instead, the way to raise a confident, securely attached child is to lean in to nurture, to hold your infant as much as you want, support their emotions, engage in back-and-forth conversations, be present and compassionate when your baby is stressed, and share sleep. Research has proven that nurturing experiences transform lives. Nurturing is a gift of resilience and health parents can give the next generation simply by following their instincts to care for their young.
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"All nurture is nourishing for our babies' brains," contends this flawed debut from neuroscientist Kirshenbaum. Defining nurture as "deliberate time spent in a physical and emotional relationship with your baby," Kirshenbaum explores how supportive parental care shapes infants' cognitive development. She debunks myths that she says lead to lackluster parenting, pushing back against the claim that "responding to cries... teaches an infant to be dependent" by explaining that newborns lack the cognitive infrastructure to self-soothe and that parental comfort helps young brains learn to relieve stress on their own. Small actions can make a big difference, Kirshenbaum posits, suggesting that merely talking to babies "significantly affects the stress systems, hormones, and neurotransmitters in their brains." While some of the accessible glosses on neuroanatomy are a boon ("The amygdala is like an alarm for the stress system"), they just as often succumb to vague language, as when she warns that "low-nurturing hormones," such as "low oxytocin," make babies more "reactive" without elaborating on what that means. The author also devotes long discussions to disproving positions few hold (does anyone actually see "babies as objects to be managed" rather than "as human beings"?). Hazy scientific explanations drag this down.
Customer Reviews
Free yourself!
This book was incredibly validating, encouraging, and provided me with the evidence based information I needed to free myself to continue to parent and nurture my son without questioning my instincts or my choices any longer. Highly recommend!! Favorite parenting book ever.