Dr. David Clarke shares his "guerilla love" technique and equips readers to take an active, not passive, role in reviving a failing marriage.
"I don't love you anymore." These simple words have the power to send the listener into shock, denial, and desperation. The obvious response is to ask oneself, "What can I do to win my partner back?" In I Don't Love You Anymore, Dr. David Clarke provides just the battle plan needed.
Contrary to what many relationship "experts" recommend-weak, passive plans that involve begging or romancing a spouse back-Clarke offers an approach that he calls guerilla love, which essentially turns the tables on the wandering spouse. He outlines the biblical view of marriage and instructs readers on:
Drawing healthy boundaries.Five things he really means when he says, "I don't love you anymore."The most popular "exit lies" and how to see through them.Classic symptoms of a person who is having an affair.
Most important, Clarke empowers and equips readers to make the best, most God-honoring, attempt at saving a marriage.
This book was hard to read. Not hard as in understanding the words, but hard to take in. By the first two chapters I was in tears. I truly felt he was writing about my husband and me, literarily! I read on and kept saying I can't do this, I cant do this. My husband works out of state and I only see him once a week for two months. He is due home in 10 days and I'm getting my nerve up to try the lessons in this book. I don't know if I will be able to comment later but if I can I will. Thank you, David for writing this book and pray for my marriage as i start to put your teachings to work. JB