Outdated

Ready to trade the world's way of dating for the way that actually works?


Everyone wants to be loved--to find someone who will stick with them through all of life's ups and downs, someone who is in it for the long haul. But in a world where dating is increasingly based on split-second decisions and geared toward casual relationships rather than marriage, it's easy to feel discouraged, used, or unworthy of true love and lasting affection.


Jonathan "JP" Pokluda has counseled thousands of young singles through the pain and heartbreak of dating the world's way. Now he wants to help you. With plenty of true stories about relationships healed and love found, this practical book


● dispels the myths, misconceptions, and fairy tales you've believed about dating

● shares truth from the One who invented marriage and created you to crave relationship

● explains God's purposes for singleness, dating, and marriage 

● covers why you should date, who you should date, and how you should date


Trade the lies for truth. Start dating a different way.