You’ve been playing games in your relationship far too long and it’s about to cost you what you really want: love. If you don’t pull it together and get a grip, you know you will be alone soon. Fearing rejection and abandonment, a person with the fearful-avoidant attachment style is passive-aggressive and has a hard time seeing their own worth. They question love and their actions are confusing to their partner. This book discusses all four attachment styles, but highlights the fearful-avoidant partner.
Great concept... needs proof reader
This book made me aware one of the major issues I have had for 35 years... who would have known? Total shift in understanding my patterns of my past. Great insight on the concept of four avoidant relationship issues but really doesn’t go into much depth... At least I now know that I’ve got a big habit to break.
With that, I would have given 4 stars, but a major issue for me with the book is the author needs a proof reader. ASAP. There is nothing like breaking the focus of the issues explained than to have to grammatically rearrange sentences for her mid concept. I am tempted to say this book was “written” as a speech-to-text or a foreign language Google translation because some of the sentences are so obviously wrong. As I mentioned, it takes the reader completely out of the moment of a great concept. The book is littered with grammatical mistakes. I only kept reading because my girlfriend wanted me to - and because the concept hit home. But still, for an author who has written a whole bunch of books, I really feel this is sub par writing and would not want to have to read more mistakes.
Great concept though.